Adoption Records Opened in Ontario

Finally. As of June 1, 2009 if you were adopted in Ontario – or if your child was placed for adoption – you can receive information from your birth and adoption records through Service Ontario.
Prior to locating my birth parents the only information I had was the initial of my birth surname, my first name [...]

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Celebrity Adoption

When I heard Madonna was hoping to adopt internationally again, I immediately had my concerns. Some people think such celebrities should focus their attention on adopting within their own country, while others believe the fact that their desire to adopt brings adoption into the spotlight is a positive thing.
In the April 2009 Adoption Council of [...]

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Adoption Connections

I don’t think I fully understood open adoption until I began researching open adoption online. Through the magic of the Internet I was introduced to a remarkable woman who was not only a birth mother, but who has opened her heart and talents to other birth parents and adoptive parents in Canada through her website [...]

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Ten Confessions of a Hopeful Adoptive Parent

I am worried my husband and I will never be chosen to privately adopt
Just when I think I know everything there is to know about adoption I find out I don’t
The first time we heard about open adoption it scared [...]

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I’m a Person, Not a Material Object.

I have a friend who was adopted at birth through a closed private adoption. She has always known she was adopted and recently when she asked her adoptive mother about how soon her mom felt a bond between them her adoptive mother answered immediately. My friend was touched, however it was what her adoptive mother [...]

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Unsuspecting Twins Marry – Another Reason Open Adoption is a Good Thing

There are many downsides to closed adoptions, but the recent story of twins unwittingly marrying one another because they didn’t know they were siblings (read story here) is definitely a strong argument in favour of open adoption. Some people may laugh at the twins’ misfortune, but as an adoptee of a closed adoption I empathize. [...]

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Coping with my own Infertility

After trying to conceive for nearly two years I was diagnosed with premature ovarian failure. I have no eggs left and probably had few eggs to begin with. Not a lot is known about POF except that no fertility drug in the world can make your body produce something you were not born with. My [...]

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It takes a whole village to raise a child

There seems to be a lot of controversy around adoption. Here is what I think: when done right and for the right reasons adoption can be a wonderful thing, when done wrong adoption can emotionally tear someone apart and have perpetually negative consequences.
I am an adoptee. My adoption was public and closed. In recent years [...]

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